04-05-13 16.51

''This part of a man (protection) is why women are attracted to taller men, you want to feel like you can stand behind him, he can protect you, shield you. We all want strong men not necessarily physically strong. I mean he could be lean but be able to open that jam bottle the way you can't, he always makes sure you are safe. If you are disrespected he knows how to handle it and put a stop to it. Protection isn’t just about using physical force against someone, though. A man who truly cares about or loves you can and will protect you in other ways, whether it be with advice, or stepping up to perform a task that he thinks is too dangerous for you to do.

We’ve lost sight of this.. Stopped demanding it from our men. Maybe it’s because there are so many women left to raise their children alone, or maybe it’s because there just haven’t been enough men teaching our boys how to be true men. But I firmly believe that a real woman can bring out the best in her man; sometimes a man need to meet a real woman other than his own mother to bring out his best qualities. That, however, requires something of the woman; she’s got to demand that every man stand and deliver.

Now for me the end of this chapter brings to fore the reoccurrence of women battery. Basically wife beating or spousal abuse.  Its painful that we bring up our daughters in a world where a man hitting a woman he has vowed to love is ok. Some women are dying at the hand of their abusers because they are too afraid or have been so psychologically diminished they can't come out of it. I have never been in this situation and I pray never to be. I honestly can't wrap my head around a man hitting me and me making excuses for him. I do understand that its a psychological thing but women please don’t be naive, you can tell if he will hit you. There are so many signs of aggression, jealousy, possessiveness etc. The first time he raises his hand in an attempt to hit you, your alarm bells should go off. Once it happens it will continue. Everyday you see pictures of women dead or brutally bruised, missing, victims of abuse in their own homes in front of their children. The boys then grow up with that some repeating the same pattern others hopefully knowing that it was wrongThis topic is so upsetting for me because of the growing debasement of the female sex.

If you know anyone in this type of situation you need to reach out, you need to keep reaching out to them. You can't stop and say ''Well, she has two legs. She can leave''. You need to keep remindin that person of what they are worth, of what they have and what this abuse is taking from them. You need to keep reaching out.

But a real man who loves you sure will walk through a mountain and on water before he’d let someone bring any hurt or harm to you (protect).''


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